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Funnily enough tonight some guy Who apparently is from another state but when his facebook chat notification comes up it says he is from the same neighbourhood as my ex.

Anyway His account is very suspicious. Has very few friends and photos ect and Its someone I don't know or recognize And he was asking me all the questions about if I am still with my ex she was really hot and that he thought we really hit it off ect. I told him Id rather not talk about it but he was still fishing for small stuff... .Extremely sus! Especially since anyone that knows her or is from her area is sure to know  what is going on no matter how secretive she is... .

Has anyone else experienced something similar. Its so odd this is coming from a guys account im almost certain its a fake... .Who knows whole thing seems immature.

Snap:

Yes.  Trust your gut.  Perhaps a bit cunning as well.  I consider a form of stalking.

Don't take the bait.  Stay disciplined.   So glad i don't do FB

Snap,

Your best bet is to not respond to that person who is messaging you.

It could very well be her and/or one of her friends trying to get information/reaction out of you.

They do stalk... .keep this in mind.

Even when they banish you in discard.

Any response from you will lower your guard.

I received a text from a number that originated 3 blocks away from where my ex lives(several states away) in the disguise of spam.

I didn't respond to it.

My exUBPDgf stalked me via fake accounts on Facebpok/Instagram when she left me first time.

It was one of the ways she used to get back in.

She is most likely doing this now... .

From all these unrecognized texts/calls I have received after she left me 2nd time.

I haven't responded to any of it.

Don't respond.

Nothing good will come out of it.

Except more hurt down the line.

Hang in there.

I'm not saying you should do this, but it would be funny if you asked him if he was dating her and whether he knew she was mentally ill with BPD. 

Snap its sounds like a person whom you don't know asking you very personal questions is uncomfortable.  And rightly so. It would raise some bells for me too.

Does it really matter if its your ex parading as someone else (bizarre) or another person (inappropriate)?

Maybe its a good time to put some boundaries up against inappropriate behavior like this?  Shut it down cold ... .Ya get me?

This type of contact doesn't help you get her out of your mind and it's liable to make the detachment process longer than it needs to be. Why not delete this contact and change your FB status so that only friends can see you?