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Title: sent emails... let the chips fall where they may Post by: momtara on September 12, 2013, 09:17:04 PM Hubby has been asking if we're still getting a divorce. We have two kids so I hate to agitate him, but I had to be honest. I told him he needs a lot of psych. help. I said it kindly, but was firm. I anticipate a barrage of revenge. He does it in such subtle ways - calling to "talk to the kids" but then yelling at me, sending lawyer letters w/lies, etc. Guess I am just posting because I am scared. Talking to him is so trying unless I am glossing over our issues.
Yep, still walking on eggshells even though separated. Title: Re: sent emails... let the chips fall where they may Post by: Matt on September 13, 2013, 12:18:55 AM Do you need to talk to him at all? Can you communicate through e-mail? Or only talk about simple things like what time the kids need to get to soccer practice, not about the divorce or any other emotional issues?
Title: Re: sent emails... let the chips fall where they may Post by: momtara on September 13, 2013, 01:36:57 AM Yeah, this was an email, is what i mean. I wanted to be honest with him. I can't keep saying maybe we'll get back together. I am too scared to be with him. So I sent an email clarifying that. I am just afraid of his reaction. Luckily I won't be seeing him for at least a week.
Title: Re: sent emails... let the chips fall where they may Post by: Matt on September 13, 2013, 08:34:26 AM OK, you sent it, and that's that. Minimize contact and keep it to unemotional topics - practical matters that need to be communicated.
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