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Title: Dreams she's having Post by: SaviorSyn on September 18, 2013, 07:56:43 PM My BPD girlfriend and I are currently separated. We still communicated frequently but ever since the BPD realization I can almost read her like a book and predict her next step. Her interpersonal relationships are hard and it has basically ruined us. I think she is back on a dating site looking for the next relationship. She has told me along with her family that I have treated her(and her son) better than anyone she has dated, but as she realized I wasn't perfect it was time to move on. I have talked the effects that this has on her son and that stability is important for him and that dating someone else will not solve the problem because she cannot handle long-term relationship.
Now to the dreams, she told me the other night she has been having nightmares about dating certain guys and her and her family don't like who she is seeing and she doesn't understand why she is with the guy in the dream. We have talked about BPD and the steps to get better, but she is too busy now to start anything. My biggest fear is her throwing what could be a great relationship and something that is meaningful to her son away because she is too busy and wont take the next step towards recovery. Any help? |