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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: FineTime on September 22, 2013, 01:02:02 PM



Title: Soon to be BPD ex now making contact with grandkids.
Post by: FineTime on September 22, 2013, 01:02:02 PM
My soon to be ex husband with BPD turned my son and daughter in law against me.  As a result,  I can no longer have contact with my only grandchildren.  He did a great distortion campaign.  Mind you there were minor problems before... .he just played on them.  I have been notified by the BPD's mother that he is now going to start writing to my grandchildren as  he travels his way through Alaska and the states.   Sounds so high and mighty but I know he's doing it to get to me.  As we go through our divorce I have established a  no contact rule except through our attorneys.  He is livid and has now found a way to get to me through my 10 and 8 year old grandchildren.  Any advice... .I'm so angry. 


Title: Re: Soon to be BPD ex now making contact with grandkids.
Post by: DreamGirl on September 24, 2013, 11:21:23 AM
That is so hard.  :'(

Any chance on repairing the relationship with your son?

A therapist who can help you in this?