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Title: BPD+Narcisstic Abuse Post by: SeekerofTruth on October 03, 2013, 12:28:58 PM Anyone know the stats on comorbidity of BPD + NPD?
Mine is very high functioning and highly intelligent which can result in an even stealthier form of abuse because we don't recognize the layers, ripples, and myriads of abuse, inspite of our inner gut signals that something is off... ., as our inner core vulnerability to the attachment (trauma bond) gets rekindled. I've actually gone the route of full on confrontation and education and expressed love, as we are on the divorce vs. reconciliation path. I have presented her with the ultimatum, either submit to competent evaluation by someone trained in high functioning BPDs ( I didn't even know they existed) and treatment or we will proceed down path of a likely contested (unnessarily so because of her all-or-nothing stance) divorce coupled with her adversaril attorney. At any rate, I came across what i think is an EXCELLENT video on "Narcissitic Abuse - How it Occurs & How to Overcome it" 1-3. www.youtube.com/watch?v=tg7DtfY8BCk An 18 minute clip that begins to refine my perspective and understanding. From being on these boards especially, this video in particular illuminates much of my experience. Sharing the link for others. Just Excellent! Title: Re: BPD+Narcisstic Abuse Post by: Learning_curve74 on October 07, 2013, 02:44:22 AM Seeker, I don't have any links to stats, but I wouldn't be surprised that many high functioning pwBPD have some NPD traits. I think it may be a contributing factor to how they are high functioning versus the low functioning BPD.
Title: Re: BPD+Narcisstic Abuse Post by: snappafcw on October 07, 2013, 03:37:16 AM Too be honest i watched the first two videos and i feel hopeless again.
Title: Re: BPD+Narcisstic Abuse Post by: huhhuh on October 07, 2013, 05:09:25 AM Just a warning... the videos will trigger
Title: Re: BPD+Narcisstic Abuse Post by: hopealways on October 07, 2013, 01:47:24 PM I do know that BPD can only "work" with Narcissists since they feed off each other. They will still not be happy together but it is the perfect symbiotic relationship. Mine was BPD + some Narcissistic qualities. Her ex of many years was also a big time Narcissist and she was obsessed with him (although she also cheated on him).
Title: Re: BPD+Narcisstic Abuse Post by: SeekerofTruth on October 07, 2013, 07:06:57 PM Sorry snapp, i did not see that coming. My apologies.
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