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Title: Yesterday she wants a divorce. Today she loves loves loves me. Post by: Rees on October 09, 2013, 04:45:06 PM This is part of the cycle. When is it time to say enough is enough? What about my children. I'm feeling totally trapped. I think I'm depressed.
My therapist who I have been seeing for about a year now told me to read stop walking on eggshells, which I'm slowly getting through and although it's been enlightening, and I feel strangely relieved in knowing and understanding what it is that I think I may be dealing with, I'm also completely shocked. I don't think this has completely settled in yet, but the more I read the more completely obvious it becomes to me that what I am dealing with and have continued to deal with is my wife's suffering from BPD. I don't know what I want anymore and it scares the hell out of me and I'm afraid of what a divorce will do to my young family and our beautiful, innocent children. I'm seeing my therapist again on Monday. Title: Re: Yesterday she wants a divorce. Today she loves loves loves me. Post by: GreenMango on October 14, 2013, 03:39:18 PM It's not an easy decision when you add kids and all the others things that make up a marriage into considering a divorce.
How did the therapy visit go? Title: Re: Yesterday she wants a divorce. Today she loves loves loves me. Post by: Vindi on October 15, 2013, 08:38:52 AM you have to do what is best for you, and your kids. I know of soo many couples with kids, who did end up getting divorced. It is sad, no one wants it to happen, but its not fair if you stay in a marriage, just for the kids.
Yes, she may be flip flopping on the divorce one day... .loving you the next... .etc... . Does your wife have a therapist, or is she willing to seek out marriage counseling to save your marriage? |