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Title: She said, "I would never find anyone to love ME the way that she loved me." Post by: Changingman on October 11, 2013, 01:40:29 AM God, I hope not!
Thought this was funny. They all say this to get you to love them. Best sex I've ever had, most amazing person etc. They just want to hear you say these things. Title: Re: She said, "I would never find anyone to love ME the way that she loved me." Post by: Octoberfest on October 11, 2013, 01:48:31 AM I am interpreting this as she said TO you, "You will never find anyone to love you like I loved you". Is that correct?
And yeah, many pwBPD will say WHATEVER they must in order to get their way. Truth is a very fluid concept, and the truth that exists in their minds is often a distorted and unrecognizable one. Title: Re: She said, "I would never find anyone to love ME the way that she loved me." Post by: Changingman on October 11, 2013, 01:55:04 AM Yes, she said to me, I hope never to find such toxic 'love' again. Push/pull
Title: Re: She said, "I would never find anyone to love ME the way that she loved me." Post by: DragoN on October 11, 2013, 04:55:35 AM Excerpt "You will never find anyone to love you like I loved you" I hope to hell not. I would not like to find out what Hate looks like... .oh wait... I already know Title: Re: She said, "I would never find anyone to love ME the way that she loved me." Post by: eyvindr on October 12, 2013, 12:44:10 PM Ditto, ditto and ditto!
SO predictable, this illness. Title: Re: She said, "I would never find anyone to love ME the way that she loved me." Post by: Aussie0zborn on October 12, 2013, 03:46:03 PM Yes I heard all that, too. In the devaluation she added, "You dont now what you're missing".
I knew very well what i would miss out on... .the rages, the deceit, the financial abuse, the violence, the smear campaigns, the flirting in front of me, the insults, the feeling of helplessness, the isolation and loneliness I constantly felt. And when I think of how much I enjoy not having all this in my life, it brings a smile of content to my face. If only I did things her way she could live her fairytale life. But then, who wants to be an accessory/enhancement to a mentally ill person to live this fake life. I'd rather live mine which I now own. She had no idea. Title: Re: She said, "I would never find anyone to love ME the way that she loved me." Post by: GreenMango on October 12, 2013, 04:16:27 PM If you look at that statement its probably true.
Not to many people love that way. Which could be a blessing in disguise. |