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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Afool on October 15, 2013, 10:25:54 PM



Title: Give me strength.
Post by: Afool on October 15, 2013, 10:25:54 PM
Well, next Friday I have my ultimate test. My ex lives in Las Vegas and I live in California. I'm going with a group of really good friends to see the Kanye (who she despises, yes!) concert that is in Vegas. In the back of my mind I am blocking out this fantasy I have of us running into each others arms. I know this is an unhealthy delusion. I have deleted her number from my phone, but I think I know it by heart. I don't know, any tips other than do not contact her?


Title: Re: Give me strength.
Post by: Ironmanrises on October 15, 2013, 10:28:03 PM
Enjoy yourself.

Stay NC.



Title: Re: Give me strength.
Post by: PhoenixRising15 on October 15, 2013, 10:30:51 PM
If you are under the influence of substances, give your phone to a trusted friend, who knows just how toxic she is.


Title: Re: Give me strength.
Post by: Afool on October 15, 2013, 10:36:44 PM
If you are under the influence of substances, give your phone to a trusted friend, who knows just how toxic she is.

Yeah, this is a good idea. I have this nightmare where I look up and see her walking around with some guy in the MGM Grand just to show me how 'fabulous' she is. She would love that. The look on my face is painful for me to think about.


Title: Re: Give me strength.
Post by: Accepting on October 16, 2013, 12:04:18 AM
Try to be in the moment with friends. Emerse yourself in them and focus on having fun, for you, for them.  *) < Kanye  lol


Title: Re: Give me strength.
Post by: SeekerofTruth on October 16, 2013, 01:36:17 AM
Visualize yourself Enjoying yourself, your new life, your buddies, this moment and completely ignoring her.


Title: Re: Give me strength.
Post by: Learning_curve74 on October 16, 2013, 01:37:12 AM
Have fun with your friends. Give your phone to one of them if you need to. Party time!  |iiii