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Title: UBPDex days he lost the plot Post by: newlyhopeful on October 26, 2013, 06:28:58 PM Received a text yesterday from ex to say he is not coping and he will "probably" get professional help. He hopes I understand but he cannot have D5 this week. A later text said he lost the plot big time and then I see on his mothers fb page that he wants to kill himself.
I expect that his GF has left and the remorse will go when she returns however I am thinking of contacting a lawyer. It sounds like his home environment has become toxic. Gf recently moved in. Am I best trying to keep D5 away? where would I stand. Thoughts appreciated! NH Title: Re: UBPDex days he lost the plot Post by: david on October 26, 2013, 07:21:35 PM Talk to your atty and have all the evidence. Threatening suicide is serious and D5 should not be exposed to this. I would want supervised visits by a professional or the courts at a minimum.
Title: Re: UBPDex days he lost the plot Post by: Free One on October 29, 2013, 02:28:15 PM Thank goodness he has enough mental state to not visit his daughter this week! My advice in that aspect - let him know you are supportive of his decision to skip a visit. Even some verbal praise in making a decision that is best for his daughter. Anything to reinforce the behavior.
Is this an isolated incident or do you have other evidence that would show a change in stability? Title: Re: UBPDex days he lost the plot Post by: Matt on November 10, 2013, 08:58:32 PM What is the "plot"?
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