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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Aw511 on October 30, 2013, 10:46:19 AM



Title: just saw him on a dating website after 1 wk NC
Post by: Aw511 on October 30, 2013, 10:46:19 AM
i am not in the least bit surprised. i am sure he had his account the whole time we were together. but still, it breaks my heart. one week ago today, he told me he loved me


Title: Re: just saw him on a dating website after 1 wk NC
Post by: guitargrl on October 30, 2013, 11:40:18 AM
Just want to say I am sorry for all that you are going through with him. 



Title: Re: just saw him on a dating website after 1 wk NC
Post by: Aw511 on October 30, 2013, 11:45:47 AM
Thank you so much. it is good to have a place to vent. my friends all just think he's an ass and i should get over it but they just don't understand the way that people here do. :/



Title: Re: just saw him on a dating website after 1 wk NC
Post by: nyfit1 on October 30, 2013, 12:36:36 PM
Caught my exgf on dating sites the entire 2 years we were together. She denied it until i printed her profile and showed her. Then lie after lie followed. Not worth going over the details of her delusions. I asked her, if u love me so much and say I'm the love of your life then how could u? She said she can't be alone and even though these guys can never compare to me, they will do. I said well then you're just using these guys. Suppose they fall in love with u? She said she didn't care, would get upset and then tell me I don't understand.


Title: Re: just saw him on a dating website after 1 wk NC
Post by: Accepting on October 30, 2013, 03:03:39 PM
Aw511 I don't have time to post much as I'm off to work but the exact thing happened with me.

It hurts heaps but at least there's no other amazing person filling the gap we left. ... .at least you know they can't find what they're looking for. I'd rather that than feeling like it was just that I wasn't enough. I think they'll always be looking.

Hang in there