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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: strikeforce on October 30, 2013, 01:18:58 PM



Title: 3 days of peace...
Post by: strikeforce on October 30, 2013, 01:18:58 PM
... .Broken with a 'how's you? xx'

She told me on Sunday she's been suicidal for 3 months before we broke up and since we split up earlier this month.

I feel bad but I just deleted her text



Title: Re: 3 days of peace...
Post by: Ironmanrises on October 30, 2013, 06:40:35 PM
... .Broken with a 'how's you? xx'

She told me on Sunday she's been suicidal for 3 months before we broke up and since we split up earlier this month.

I feel bad but I just deleted her text

In bold.

I know that wasn't easy to do Strike.

But you did the right thing.

You looked out for Strike.

Your well being first.

Maintain that NC.

Hang in there.

You know more intrusions... .

Are inbound.

Keep her on other side of that NC wall.


Title: Re: 3 days of peace...
Post by: strikeforce on October 31, 2013, 10:41:25 AM
Im just waiting to see how she escalates


Title: Re: 3 days of peace...
Post by: Ironmanrises on October 31, 2013, 10:53:59 AM
She will probably... .

Come at you... .

From predictable angles... .

And if she sees... .

That... .

That doesn't get you to reply... .

Will switch angle of intrusion.

Anything... .

That will get you to respond.


Title: Re: 3 days of peace...
Post by: strikeforce on October 31, 2013, 11:01:34 AM
The last time I was NC, as you know, she hit me with an abusive message that forced me to reply.

She will probably go from: 'Hows you?' - 'You OK? Your not talking' - 'Fine i'll leave you alone' - then the abuse will start.