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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: ZigofZag on November 03, 2013, 02:28:39 PM



Title: A Good Tip To Stay Strong
Post by: ZigofZag on November 03, 2013, 02:28:39 PM
When you feel alone, when you start thinking back on your relationship and miss your Ex.

When you forget about; the pain, the abuse, the broken property, the shouting, the screaming, the drinking, the violence, the worry, the insults, the demonic looks, the lies, the accusations, the isolation, the lack of sleep, the wasted money, the stolen money, the fear you lived with.

When you consider making contact or trying the relationship again then stop, go back and reread your old posts.

Believe me, it makes you sit up and think before making a huge mistake again.



Title: Re: A Good Tip To Stay Strong
Post by: Lady31 on November 03, 2013, 02:32:03 PM
Good advice, thanks.


Title: Re: A Good Tip To Stay Strong
Post by: happylogist on November 03, 2013, 03:43:30 PM
Yes! Instead I tortured myself and read the last days of correspondence... .