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Title: Latest Triangulation Attempt Post by: rehtorb70 on November 07, 2013, 05:00:33 PM So we invited my (u?)BPDSis to a family function. She e-mailed my W to say she would not be coming. She said she was not coming because I think she has mental problems.
Fortunately, W has seen the evidence over the years so she knows better than to get sucked into the drama. Title: Re: Latest Triangulation Attempt Post by: Clearmind on November 07, 2013, 06:00:01 PM rehtorb70, do you and your wife have an understanding about communication with BPDsis?
Title: Re: Latest Triangulation Attempt Post by: rehtorb70 on November 08, 2013, 04:08:03 AM No we do not. Why do you ask?
Title: Re: Latest Triangulation Attempt Post by: Clearmind on November 08, 2013, 04:19:26 AM Its helpful that you are both on the same page as far as communication so drama does not ensue - especially if BPDsis is calling your wife and not you. It would be helpful that you both have the same boundaries over contact.
Title: Re: Latest Triangulation Attempt Post by: rehtorb70 on November 08, 2013, 03:28:27 PM Yes, good point.
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