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Title: Replacement Post by: dazednconfused2954 on November 09, 2013, 06:09:13 PM So my ex left me after 5 years, forced me out of our house, and moved someone new in within 2 weeks. She was "with" her the next day. She knew girl for 15 years and were best friends so when I told her how painful and ridic it was to move someone in after 2 weeks and a 5 year relationship she said we knew each other, this is nothing new. Damn right it isn't, Im sure she was talking to her/cheating the WHOLE time. Anyways I started researching and she is almost textbook BPD. Not diagnosed... .that I know of. I didn't what had happened was even logical. Now the real bizarre part comes in tho. She keeps calling me... .I have her blocked but she will find a way to call. Its been 3 months almost. She keeps saying same thing on VM or if I answer and says I am moving her out soon and you need to come home. Im like is she that far out of touch with reality that she thinks I would really do that? or could do that? She told me that she just lost touch with reality and lost her mind. She said she has to clean up the mess she has created but yet nothing happens. Why does she keep repeating this to me? Just to hold on or is she hovering? I mean somebody please help me sort this out because its driving me nutz.
Title: Re: Replacement Post by: dazednconfused2954 on November 09, 2013, 06:14:09 PM Oh and I wanted to add that she keeps telling her new gf that I have things of her. So her new gf texted this:
Give her the stuff back. Now you see why she dropped you like a bad habit. I had an ex that held onto my stuff because she wouldn't move on. So sad. HA! I was the bigger person and didn't even tell her that my ex had been texting me and telling me she loved me. The new girl seems just as ridiculous as my ex. But that was so hurtful and why do people need to be so mean. Also during the break up my ex texted this but later said her new gf did. Regardless its mean. When I get through with you I hope you don't hang yourself. WOW I know right! but now she says things like life sucks without you in it and I would do anything to be with you. But then she doesn't do anything. I don't want her back but Im just saying if she truly did want that her actions would show that. She is really somebody who I never knew. I still cant believe it. Title: Re: Replacement Post by: Suzn on November 09, 2013, 06:21:22 PM I don't want her back but Im just saying if she truly did want that her actions would show that. She is really somebody who I never knew. I still cant believe it. Sorry this happened dazed. It is confusing isn't it? You are correct in thinking actions speak. Have you considered changing your number? Title: Re: Replacement Post by: Somewhere on November 09, 2013, 06:58:31 PM Excerpt is she that far out of touch with reality that she thinks I would really do that? You really have to wonder don't you? Or do they think that we are that out of touch that they can pull the crazy crap? Title: Re: Replacement Post by: ShadowDancer on November 09, 2013, 07:44:26 PM These here aren't any old kind of blues
You wouldn't know tho unless you walked in my shoes I've seen this and I've worked thru that And now it's my turn to tip my hat After everything we had went so wrong We go back to where we belong And I will go fast and travel far Look up that's me swinging on a star There is no time now for right or wrong I know in my heart I've stayed too long All I can say now is that I'm O.K. As long as I stay far far away When you look up into the night You'll know that I'm alright Traveling wide and going far Swinging on a twinkling star |