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So tonight I found out the object of her affection is a girl who is on my meetup group.  She began an emotional affair with her about a month before calmly dumping me.  The irony of all this is that this girl threw me a birthday party Saturday.

Liars. Cheats.  How did I end up here?

I can blame myself but I know I am a trusting and loving person with good values and a huge heart.  My ex is sick but now instead of concerned I am angry.  I tossed out everything tonight.  She can keep playing this game... .with someone else.   

Did this "friend" of yours from your meetup group who threw you your bday party forget to mention she was seeing your ex?

That's got to hurt.  I'm sorry.   :'(  You never know with people in general these days.  That's is straight up crappy.

My exh stole his BROTHER'S long term gf and moved in with her when they were in their 20's.  They didn't speak for a long time.  His brother was in love with this girl and been dating her about 4 years, I think they may have been engaged.  I found this out after we were married.  He would get mad if I asked anything (obviously didn't want to be exposed) so I have limited info.  I know that he didn't end up staying with her for a long time or anything.  Just swooped in on something he wanted for the time being, regardless of the effects it would have on his own brother.  Shameless and pitiful.

NO, do not blame yourself for the callous actions of motherhitingheartlesspricks angel, use your anger, turn it into something good for yourself, you have asked the right question" how did I end up here"  Im still trying to answer that one myself, Im glad you turfed all her stuff,let her play her reckless game with somebody else, you frikin deserve better, and your so called " friend", dont let em " take your light" ( thanks AG)