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That your ex did... .

Mine had the abandonment fears.  Bad dissociation at times. Definite fear of engulfment. If I wanted to get something out of the kitchen (eat or drink) and we were already in bed she would get out of bed and follow me. She also insisted I take baths and showers with her. There are many more that I will think of. The most convenient thing though was when she wanted to do something I didn't want to do I would tell her OK.  I knew if we waited an hour she would change her mind. Lol

Hmm, mine didnt like to eat in public, or even when we were just hangn out at his home, hed always insist that I eat something at the same time, odd how he had no problem yelling and screaming in the middle of town at me, once he even through a full bottle of milk at me while I sat in a bus stop... go figure... .

Another thing... .she was so obsessed with her body and using special creams and lotions yet she would have unprotected sex with people risking STD's etc. 

- took his cat for a walk around the block.

- insisted he didn't want to shower more than every three days as he liked being "grungy" (only found this out near end luckily!)

- had Facebook freakouts where he couldn't "handle" it anymore and would delete his account.

- told quite elaborate stories that I'm never quite sure were truthful at all (eg one day going to his uni library there was a guy not letting him unless he bought drugs... .)

Sure there's a lot more!

Sex on demand. Literally. Like i was a huge dildo for her. I had to get aroused and fully functioning on her command. And this became especially pronounced in devaluation. Pardon my vulgarity.