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Title: symptoms of NBPD and some questions about BPD Post by: Mazda on November 14, 2013, 06:56:28 AM Hi all,
I have read a lot about co-morbid BPD and NPD and I just wanted some examples of symptoms where a person has both? I strongly suspect my ex fiance (Voldemort) had co-morbid. Also, did anyone ever notice their SOs being extremely sensitive to those who they have painted white? Voldemort would fly off the handle if I so much as criticized any member of his immediate family (who were all heartless half-wits and stood by silently while he would abuse me). If I even calmly and politely said anything that pointed out any of their (multiple) flaws, he would get so angry he would hang up the phone on me and then ignore my calls for hours. Did anyone else with long distance relationships experience this? I have never, even in grade school, had someone hang up the phone on me so many times and ignore so many calls. Thanks! Title: Re: symptoms of NBPD and some questions about BPD Post by: fromheeltoheal on November 14, 2013, 11:24:49 AM My borderline ex has her own cocktail of BPD and NPD traits:
Borderline: Extremely emotionally sensitive to pretty much everything Rageful outbursts with no apparent cause Impulsive sexuality Eating disorders; using food to soothe, especially ice cream, gobs and gobs of ice cream Frequent talks of suicide Rapidly changing emotion states Manipulation and continuous lying Inability to be alone Emotional immaturity and cluelessness about the world Dissociation, cognitive distortion, zoning out Narcissistic: Criticism always met with rage Positive she's god's gift to women Convinced everyone's looking at her in any room Fantasies of her abilities and accomplishments, not even remotely reality Need constant attention and admiration Constantly self-focused; others are seen as there to meet her needs Lovely package of traits huh? Not someone I want to be around, which begs the question why was I? Because I was trying to love her through all that, cut the crap girl, I see the beautiful girl under all that, let's you and me build an awesome life together. Didn't work. Title: Re: symptoms of NBPD and some questions about BPD Post by: RecycledNoMore on November 14, 2013, 01:54:34 PM Hay mazda, not sure about the co morbid aspects yet, but yes, my uBPDx family was also a bunch of halfwits who stood by while he abused me, they would make light of any situation, even joking about his behaviour, funny thing was he hated most of them especially his mother( jailed when he was a baby for the manslaughter of her own abusive father), anyway he would rage at most of them, was always fighting with them in one way or another, o but if I said anything, even in the slightest .most polite way, even if I was agreeing with him, hed go off his nut!, " dont you talk about my family, who the fuq do you think you are... ." oh but when it came to my family, well different story... .
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