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Title: Urgent Help Needed Post by: antlen on November 19, 2013, 01:24:31 PM I'm seeing my ex tonight, as Im going over to see my daughter.
WE recently tried to date again, but out of the blue she broke it off, saying we arent good together. I'm really freaking out about how going round there. I know I'll say something about us or worse break down. I dodnt know what to do Title: Re: Urgent Help Needed Post by: waverider on November 19, 2013, 03:26:05 PM Your daughter is the center of your world, not your ex.
Your daughter will suffer if you become involved in push/pull with your ex. Focus on that and put everything else on the back burner Title: Re: Urgent Help Needed Post by: Chosen on November 19, 2013, 07:31:10 PM Your daughter is the center of your world, not your ex. Your daughter will suffer if you become involved in push/pull with your ex. Focus on that and put everything else on the back burner I agree with this in the short term. However, let me add my views in the long run: You mentioned that you two of you tried to date again, but from what it seems, things are not much better this time round. Before you agree/ try to date again (if you are open to that), you must first have a think about what went wrong previously, and what can you do to change dynamics this time round. Also, it is also worth thinking about your values, and therefore, your boundaries. When you're in a relationship it's harder to think about those. Title: Re: Urgent Help Needed Post by: waverider on November 19, 2013, 07:40:09 PM Recycling is a big issue, with promises, broken promises and eventual returns to previous issues. You need to look more into the issues surrounding this before start thinking of reconciliations.
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