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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: simplyasiam on November 20, 2013, 08:08:55 PM



Title: the ups and downs are so hard
Post by: simplyasiam on November 20, 2013, 08:08:55 PM
how on earth can ppl with BPD handle all the up and down back and forth in their lives?

weeks back with my BPD g/f and she changed again, today she told me she wants to date me and the guy she left me for seven months ago.

i cant do that she knows that

i know she will change again and be begging for me to come back with a few weeks

i wonder how long she can live in her own hell before she breaks


Title: Re: the ups and downs are so hard
Post by: waverider on November 21, 2013, 02:38:32 AM
how on earth can ppl with BPD handle all the up and down back and forth in their lives?

weeks back with my BPD g/f and she changed again, today she told me she wants to date me and the guy she left me for seven months ago.

i cant do that she knows that

i know she will change again and be begging for me to come back with a few weeks

I wonder how long she can live in her own hell before she breaks

They can't, that is why they are living in chaos. High levels of depression and instances of suicide. The problem is their logical mind is not strong enough to keep them out of it