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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: DownandOut on November 26, 2013, 11:19:21 AM



Title: Just wanted to share...
Post by: DownandOut on November 26, 2013, 11:19:21 AM
I saw a quote today that really hit home with me regarding my uBPDexgf that I wanted to share. The quote said, "You can't save a damsel if she loves her distress." Good day everyone!


Title: Re: Just wanted to share...
Post by: Turkish on November 26, 2013, 11:55:47 AM
Good one. My is Spanish speaking, and they have a saying, "Le gusta la vida mal."

"She (or he) loves the bad life."

Replacing le with te makes it "you love the bad life."

I will tell her that on my exit speech, too. Or maybe I won't... .she will punish herself, and it's sad. No need to rub it in.