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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Son, Daughter or Son/Daughter In-law with BPD => Topic started by: Gidget on December 04, 2013, 06:23:27 AM



Title: Adult child
Post by: Gidget on December 04, 2013, 06:23:27 AM
 Hi,

I typed 2 already yet I can't find them or I don't know if they posted I have been having some trouble with this posting site

Child with BPD


Title: Re: Adult child
Post by: peaceplease on December 04, 2013, 09:15:56 PM
Gidget,


.  If you click your name, then click on last posts.  You will be able to see if they posted.  I know there have been times that I thought I posted, only to find that it wasn't there.  I think I thought I hit post, but I didn't.

I hope this helps.

welcome to the board.  I just read your intro. I have an adult daughter, age 29, with suspect BPD.  I was a single mom, too.  Re-married when she was 15, and she always blamed my remarriage for her behavior.  I left her dad when she was 10 months old, and he wasn't involved with my kids much.

Please keep in touch here.

peaceplease


Title: Re: Adult child
Post by: Gidget on December 05, 2013, 04:43:56 AM
How about the get even rages. Trying to understand. I watched my grandchildren for my daughter for 5years. The last few weeks before school got out I asked her if she could put the kids the in daycare. They were in daycare 3days a week. I watched them full time for 2years that 3days a week for 2years then 2days per week the last year. I thought I would come under attack when I asked her if she could do this. She actually said ok I was shocked I didn't get screamed at. She did this for me. Then turned around and told everyone including me that she striped the kids from me because I was crazy. How do you handle this. I actually thought she understood. My husband and I were going thru some crazy times building our home at the time. I was either cursed and attacked or had lies made up about me. JUST SO SO HURT. I did everything I could for her from cleaning her house watching her children and this is how I was repaid.