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Title: Talking Post by: Tincup on December 05, 2013, 02:44:36 PM I want to ask a general question. Every time my ex would break up it would literally be over something small, and she would not talk about it at all. I would get a text or an email that would say something along the lines of "you love X more than you love me". X could be my kids, money, my own time, etc. Each time I would say let's talk about this, to which she would say that there is nothing to talk about.
Does this sound like anyone else, or am I special :-) Title: Re: Talking Post by: Lucky Jim on December 05, 2013, 02:54:17 PM Hey Tincup, Sure, this is quite familiar. Anything that drew attention away from my BPDxW was treated as a threat. Could be a college reunion, a call from my sister, a friend inviting me over to watch an NFL game, a business meeting, you name it. In my view, it all stems from their fear of abandonment and core insecurities, which never really let up. Lucky Jim
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