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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: ogopogodude on December 06, 2013, 10:29:35 PM



Title: My physician recommended to me to give info to BPDwife's dr & her therapist
Post by: ogopogodude on December 06, 2013, 10:29:35 PM
I went to my doctor for my yearly physical exam (and got my blood work taken as well). One has to keep in mind their own health, cholesterol/HDL/LDL prostrate etc... .

Anyways, ... my doctor knows EVERYTHING about my crazy-behaviour wife. He advised me to give ALL information to my wife's doctor. This means ALL covert videos, audio clips as well as the very damaging social services report on my wife (in Canada we call social services The Ministry of Children and Family Development).

As every body knows here in these forums, ... the phrase "you can fool some of the people some of the time but you cannot fool all the people all of the time", ... .certainly pertains to BPD afflicted persons. They can fool people and make them believe that what they are saying is truth & factual.

This is where my videos etc come in... .I have successfully proved that my wife is a liar multiple times over, even though she seems to certain people that she has a halo over her head.  During my physical at my dr's office yesterday, ... .he said for me to give all this damaging information not only to my wife's dr but also her therapist (psychologist) that the judge (and social services) made her promise to attend.

So, that is EXACTLY what I am going to do. This way, they (the professionals) will not be fooled by her anymore. Trust me, ... .doctors can be fooled by a BPD person (quite easily actually). But if you give them information, ... .a professional is medically-legally obligated to assess what information is given to them (collateral patient information) and they cannot discard it. A doctor or therapist must assess it, then put into the patient's chart as valuable information of a patient.