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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: necchi on December 10, 2013, 03:53:29 PM



Title: I'm going mad
Post by: necchi on December 10, 2013, 03:53:29 PM
Today i called D13 mom to tell my her exBPD was manipulating her and i wanted to put child services so it stops, i never got a chance to tell her and that i had texts of the discussion between them she just kept going back on our relation, on how this and how exBPD looks like nice ( for fu£k sake, she got a retraining order on her ) anyhow I'm messed up right now... .And text exBPD to tell her about her abuse and using my kids and she just laugh at me ... ." lol, I've been done with you for long... .

this from someone who i went back to after using my kids, hurting more than once my animals, ahhh! Man ! Why didn't i let her down before ? Why ? I'vebeen a wreack bcause of her for the past 4 years, she destroyed me


Title: Re: I'm going mad
Post by: necchi on December 10, 2013, 04:05:56 PM
Never thought she would use me like this at the end she really didn't understand that she put me troughs this like she said, it hurts,I'm back at square one


Title: Re: I'm going mad
Post by: necchi on December 10, 2013, 06:19:35 PM
Really ?


Title: Re: I'm going mad
Post by: RecycledNoMore on December 10, 2013, 09:42:33 PM
Breath marinro7!, I am confused, you called your 13 yr old daughters mum to say ur xBPDgf is manipulating her?, your in a sticky situation?


Title: Re: I'm going mad
Post by: heartandwhole on December 11, 2013, 08:12:38 AM
marinro7,

You are obviously upset and hurting.  What behavior is causing the most trouble right now?  I am not sure I understood what you wrote the first time.

As recycledNOmore said, breathe, and let us know how we can support you. 


Title: Re: I'm going mad
Post by: necchi on December 11, 2013, 10:23:31 AM
Yes i let my daughter see exBPD this summer but then went no contact.butD13 kept a relationship , going on we, now haven't talk to both in 5 months.d13 wont talk to me and i haven't done a thing but leave the crazy BPD