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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Tincup on December 17, 2013, 10:46:37 AM



Title: Email
Post by: Tincup on December 17, 2013, 10:46:37 AM
Ok after a couple months NC I was copied on a work email this morning from my uBPDexgf.  We do not work together.  Does anyone think this could of been an accident? 


Title: Re: Email
Post by: Calm Waters on December 17, 2013, 10:54:30 AM
it probably is, its easy on outlook to accidentally copy someone in with the same name. If it wasnt an accident well dont reply anyway, dont get drawn in, thats my advice


Title: Re: Email
Post by: Tincup on December 17, 2013, 11:06:39 AM
I won't reply.  I have been down this road many times and this is how it usually starts.  I get copied on on email, or I get a text that was supposed to go to someone else, or something like that.  And yet somehow it is RIGHT at the point when I am not thinking too much about her and starting to move on.  I think she must of implanted a chip in me somewhere and can tell where I am at mentally... .


Title: Re: Email
Post by: Calm Waters on December 17, 2013, 11:16:50 AM
block her from email and phone if possible, change your number and email alternatively