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Title: "but your not saying it right" Post by: Kallor74 on December 20, 2013, 04:07:04 PM I swear to god every time i would argue with my now exBPD she would stomp around like a little girl screaming "but your not saying it right!". Like I'm not following the crazy script in her head.
Title: Re: "BUT YOU'RE NOT SAYING IT RIGHT" Post by: DragoN on December 20, 2013, 04:38:24 PM Sounds about right. In the early years with my now exH, that was the case as well.
Crazy making behavior. May take some time to let go of the egg shell ingrained changes in your own behavior. Title: Re: "BUT YOU'RE NOT SAYING IT RIGHT" Post by: huhhuh on December 21, 2013, 08:58:09 AM Holy c***... did you date my girlfriend? *lol*
Mine said the exact same thing. word by word. No matter what we were arguing about. It was always "You are not saying it right", and she just got even madder. Title: Re: "but your not saying it right" Post by: LilMissSunshine on December 21, 2013, 09:20:41 AM Yup. I never said or did anything right. He even took pics of me when I was sleeping, to prove I didn't even "sleep" right. I kid you not.
Title: Re: "but your not saying it right" Post by: necchi on December 21, 2013, 10:07:17 PM Lillmiss, Lol ! You have got to be kidding ?
that is one of the weirdest accusation someone can make? Guess he had no inspirations that night ! Title: Re: "but your not saying it right" Post by: LilMissSunshine on December 22, 2013, 08:39:30 AM marinro7, I'm tellinyah... .no lie. I'm even laughing right now. I'm a side sleeper and he would freak if my back was towards him or... .he liked to be all "tucked" in tight. Me? I like to stick a foot out. IDK why, but I do. It drove him bahzerk. So there's lilmiss sleepin with her lil foot sticking out or on her side facing the wall or maybe even cuddling a pillow, holy hit_. Anyway, one day he said how nice it was when I didn't sleep over cuz the bed was so much easier to make. "hit_ uexBPDbf... .I made the bed whenever I stayed over anyway".
I guess it's okay to :) about some of this stuff, huh? Title: Re: "but your not saying it right" Post by: Surnia on December 22, 2013, 03:27:29 PM My guess is that "not right" means "not like me"
For some SO this is very difficult to deal with it. Her partners are thinking not the same thoughts, are doing not the same thing... .can be a huge trigger. The sleeping thing is really weird! Title: Re: "but your not saying it right" Post by: Aussie0zborn on December 22, 2013, 04:18:18 PM I like to stick a foot out. IDK why, but I do. Sticking your foot out from the bed covers lowers your body temperature. Luckily, I never once had to endure, "you're not saying it right". I did however get, "I don't like the way you think", and "listen to what you're saying". Title: Re: "but your not saying it right" Post by: myself on December 23, 2013, 12:05:16 AM My guess is that "not right" means "not like me" "Not the way I think I need, which won't work anyway" |