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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: dontknow2 on December 20, 2013, 07:37:43 PM



Title: Fear of therapy: suicidal and homicidal thoughts
Post by: dontknow2 on December 20, 2013, 07:37:43 PM
Especially after latest news hype with gun control and mental health reporting, has anyone had to calm someone, who has suicidal and/or rare homicidal thoughts (both never acted on), fear of therapy due to the following? If so, do you have any suggestions?

1) Break of confidentiality: Authorities being contacted and/or being admitted

2) Recordings/notes coming back to bite later (i.e. in court)

3) Notes becoming available to insurance companies

4) Therapy not being effective due to omission of some details for protection


Title: Re: Fear of therapy: suicidal and homicidal thoughts
Post by: Surnia on December 22, 2013, 03:02:41 PM
My thoughts are to point out to him that he could start with speaking about the suicidal thoughts, this should be "safe". As a first important step.

In my experience working with a T is always different from what I assumed it would be in the beginning.



Title: Re: Fear of therapy: suicidal and homicidal thoughts
Post by: dontknow2 on December 22, 2013, 06:20:00 PM
I hope I will have a chance to talk with him about this again and wanted to be prepared... .we'll see.

Your advice is appreciated Surnia.