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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: AWest84 on December 23, 2013, 08:03:10 AM



Title: done with the bull
Post by: AWest84 on December 23, 2013, 08:03:10 AM
After 2 weeks mckay we ran into eachother she confessed her love for me still. We spent the next week talking seeing eachother twice... .both nights amazing.after the last night I saw her I was gonna stop by with a small gift for her only to find another man at her place... .I told her not to talk to me again. She still wanted me to see her kids for Xmas I agreed. But decided it wouldn't be vast after so went to drop off xmas gifts at her house only to find a completely different guy there lol. So sick of ofthis I have cut contact now for a day I hope it stay that way.i could never bring myself to hate her but now its the only thing that keeps me happy. Im gonna drop off the kids gifts at her moms later this week along with all the little lovely things she ever got me. I don't want any part of it anymore.


Title: Re: done with the bull
Post by: heartandwhole on December 23, 2013, 08:54:38 AM
AWEST84,

Ouch!  That is so painful, I'm sorry that you had to see that.    I know things have been rocky with you two, and that you were hoping to work things out.  Now this, yikes.

Be gentle with yourself, we're here for you.  How are you holding up today?





Title: Re: done with the bull
Post by: AWest84 on December 23, 2013, 10:34:16 AM
Today I feel good because I have had enough... .not putting more energy in her