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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: dontknow2 on December 23, 2013, 06:25:58 PM



Title: Text today - he loves me and tequila
Post by: dontknow2 on December 23, 2013, 06:25:58 PM
Yes, I got a text today from my dBPDxh "Tequila makes me want you and you make me want Tequila. Love you both". Coming from him it is sweet and funny.

For me, it is sad. I'm so sorry he chooses this path over getting therapy, recovery, and living a life with his family.

":)etachment leads to freedom" has been my mantra in my head lately. I've got to let go but it is so hard after almost 20 years, 2 kids. Hence why I am on this site 


Title: Re: Text today - he loves me and tequila
Post by: Moonie75 on December 23, 2013, 07:00:46 PM
"Tequila makes me want you and you make me want Tequila. Love you both"

That would make me spit!


Title: Re: Text today - he loves me and tequila
Post by: GreenMango on December 23, 2013, 07:10:36 PM
Oh Don't!

That's like the Kenny Chesney Grace Potter song "You and Tequila"... .make me crazy.

Happy Holidays and hang in there.


Title: Re: Text today - he loves me and tequila
Post by: fromheeltoheal on December 23, 2013, 07:30:48 PM
Lovely.  That's what happens when someone takes a smartphone to a bar; in the old days it would have been a drunk dial.  You probably can't totally disconnect from him because you have kids, but those kinds of texts just made my ex look that much more ridiculous, so maybe that can help with detachment?


Title: Re: Text today - he loves me and tequila
Post by: dontknow2 on December 23, 2013, 07:41:44 PM
Moonie75, lol

Thanks to all for your support. It's nice to be understood and boosted. 

Yes, Happy Holidays     Here's to detachment!


Title: Re: Text today - he loves me and tequila
Post by: LilMissSunshine on December 23, 2013, 08:12:32 PM
What a d**k.