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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Mara2 on December 30, 2013, 10:09:59 PM



Title: He's gone, but for how long?
Post by: Mara2 on December 30, 2013, 10:09:59 PM
Well this has been a grand holiday season.  My BPDH went manic just before the holidays and then psychotic.  He is believing some very weird things right now and engaging in very erratic and dangerous behavior.  He spent a night in the mental crisis house in town, but then went to a friend's to stay.  Today he was kicked out of there and came here to get some clothes.  He has told others that Israel has carpet bombed Iran and WW3 has started and he is on standby for the government to head overseas.  I have no idea where he is now or what he is doing.  Here in town everyone knows us and I would get reports.  Most say that he told them he is going into the city. 

On one hand I am so relieved that he is gone and not coming up to bother me or the kids.  On the other, I worry a great deal about him. 


Title: Re: He's gone, but for how long?
Post by: elemental on December 30, 2013, 10:25:16 PM
Is there someone in the city he may be staying with?

I would be very worried, too. I hate it when mine goes on his silent treatment/resting thing. At least I mostly know where he is. I know better than to try and talk to him right now.

How exhausting for you   

Hopefully he will calm down and be in touch with you.