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Title: My New Years Resolutions Post by: samthewiss on December 31, 2013, 07:37:30 AM My New Year Resolution:
1. I resolve not to view my divorce as a failure but to see it as a courageous act. I chose to go into the unknown future as opposed to living with pain that i became accustomed to. 2. I resolve to forgive my ex, she knows not what she does. 3. I resolve to look deep inside myself and work on refining my character. 4. I resolve to focus on my emotions to loving, caring for my kids, my supportive family and friends. 5. Lastly, I resolve to truly believe that god (higher power as you see it) has a plan for us all. What happened was meant to... .The best is yet to come. Please add to the list. Please add to my list. Title: Re: My New Years Resolutions Post by: Surnia on December 31, 2013, 08:40:53 AM Hi Samthewiss
How are you doing today? About your resolution list: I miss compassion for yourself. Honestly I would put it instead of number 2. To avoid an overload. 2. I resolve to practice self-compassion every day. What I mean is just accept your own feelings and thoughts. Be nice with your self. No negative self talk. Forgiving your ex will follow if you are better and detached. my 2 cents. I wish you all the best for the next year. Title: Re: My New Years Resolutions Post by: Learning_curve74 on December 31, 2013, 08:51:34 AM |iiii
Be good to yourself, and always take care of yourself, sam. Title: Re: My New Years Resolutions Post by: samthewiss on December 31, 2013, 09:21:09 AM so true. Thank you for reminding me
Title: Re: My New Years Resolutions Post by: Turkish on December 31, 2013, 11:31:09 AM My New Year Resolution: 1. I resolve not to view my divorce as a failure but to see it as a courageous act. I chose to go into the unknown future as opposed to living with pain that i became accustomed to. 2. I resolve to forgive my ex, she knows not what she does. 3. I resolve to look deep inside myself and work on refining my character. 4. I resolve to focus on my emotions to loving, caring for my kids, my supportive family and friends. 5. Lastly, I resolve to truly believe that god (higher power as you see it) has a plan for us all. What happened was meant to... .The best is yet to come. Please add to the list. Please add to my list. I resolve to survive. bleah. Now I sound like my X. Title: Re: My New Years Resolutions Post by: willtimeheal on December 31, 2013, 05:27:16 PM 1. I resolve to listen to my gut and instincts. They are never wrong.
2. I resolve to be kind to myself. 3. I resolve to believe in myself. 4. I resolve to never settle for less than I deserve and I will not allow fear to ever stand in my way. 5. Finally I resolve to believe that I am worthy lovable and an amazing person who deserves great things. Title: Re: My New Years Resolutions Post by: Turkish on December 31, 2013, 05:28:34 PM 5. Finally I resolve to believe that I am worthy lovable and an amazing person who deserves great things. I have a HUGE problem with this. Much work to do... . Title: Re: My New Years Resolutions Post by: santa on December 31, 2013, 05:41:19 PM I'm resolving to stop being so nice to my ex.
I need to stop pretending our entire relationship wasn't a disaster and start treating her like the mistake she was. It's a huge success to be away from her, so I need to rejoice in it and stop pining away for something that wasn't even pleasant to begin with. |