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Title: I Am the Better Half Post by: Pretty Woman on January 03, 2014, 01:29:23 PM Well guys, I am finally coming out of the FOG. Don't get me wrong... . it is still hard but now I don't shudder everytime I hear her name (it's a pretty common name) and I am accepting I deserve better. I am seeing I contributed to this by not standing up for myself, but I did not have the tools. My core issues run deep and we were drawn together but I CAN and I WILL get better.
Yup, you heard it here... . I deserve better! I deserve a HEALTHY loving relationship with a woman who is emotionally available. I deserve a relationship where we can communicate freely and be in the "present" while navigating our "future". I deserve a relationship where my concerns can be heard without fear or retribution for the expression of my personal thoughts and desires. I deserve a relationship where when we argue we can discuss afterwards. I deserve someone who does not abandon me for others and treat me like shyt on a whim. I deserve happiness, joy and bliss with someone who loves me for WHO I am even if our interests are different. Someone who appreciates me for what I bring to the relationship. Someone who can LOVE FULLY and reciprocate all the love I have to give wholeheartedly. I deserve better! Title: Re: I Am the Better Half Post by: heartandwhole on January 03, 2014, 01:39:41 PM I deserve better! Yes, you do, Pretty Woman! I hope you'll print out this post and have it handy – it's a great New Year manifesto Remember to give yourself the time, caring, and attention that you gave your ex-partner. You matter, and you deserve your love as much as, or even more than, anyone. We're cheering you on! |