BPDFamily.com

this song just screams the insanity of a BPD r/s.  sometimes when i'm driving, the radio makes me cry and i have to pull over for a minute.  i'm beginning to think most of these artists (or at least the writers) are either pwBPD or Nons... .

chris wallace ~ you keep me crazy

www.youtube.com/watch?v=fV5avZHRO0s

Oh, ohhhh, ohhh, ohhhhh,

You were an angel on the run

That I cought some how

I tried so hard to figure you out.

But baby you're a pretty little mystery

That makes no sense to me

You got me stayin up all night, burnin inside

The voices in my head wont quit

I may be losin my mind and goin insane

But I put up with your... . Ha ha

And it's a wild ride

Every single night

Even the worst of times

Are the best of times

Got me singin'

Sunday dinner with a bottle of jack

Drive around town, like a heart attack

Baby your a mess, but it's meant to be

Cause you keep me crazy

Tell me you love me and everything's alright

57 seconds and you start a fight

Baby some how you're the one I need

Cause you keep me crazy

Oh, oh, oh oh, oh oh oh, oh oh oh oh oh

Another little fight

You say you're done

We'll see about that when the mornin comes

Cause first you're out then you're right back in

Here we go again

You'd be surprised how many songs seem to allude to BPD.

Phil Collins has basically made a fortune off it. Lol

I've started noticing it a lot know that I know what BPD is.

Just goes to show you that no matter who you are, there's always some BPD nut out there that can invade your life for awhile.

I had to stop listening to the radio for a long time because so many things reminded me of the "good" times we had and would then send me back into the cycle of wanting to be back with her, and that crazy emotional stuff that followed for me. Some of it may have been hitting too close to home cause at least a couple songs were from Phil Collins

Grimace:+{

I hear you, I have only just recently been able to listen to music again regularly, in the early stages of detatching I had to almost sheild myself from music, it seemed as if all the songs on all the stations were tragic love songs, at work sometimes id have to run off to the toilet and cry enough to let it out and not too much to fcuk up my face

I have a song lately that pretty much sums up where Im at, hurting, but coming from a place of strength

Sia- elastic heart

And another one bites the dust

Oh why can I not conquer love

And I might have thought that we were one

Enough to fight this war without weapons

You did not break me

Coz I got thickskin and an elastic heart

But your blade it might be too sharp

Im like a rubberband until you pull to hard

And I might break if i move close

And I wanted it, I wanted it so bad

BUT THERE WERE SO MANY RED FLAGS

Sorry I dont have the link but yup utube it baby!

Buckcherry Crazy B

I listen to the radio but it often causes me to cry because of related memories. I keep hoping the more I listen, the less the memories will sting.

I feel music is one of the most testing & triggering things to have in your world in a break up!

I'm a musician (drummer). I've recently played gigs where I've had to hold myself together, the bands timing together, and play best I can while triggering lyrics blast me on stage through 10k P.A system! I've had to play with my head down hoping nobody sees the tears in my eyes, while every single beat I play prompts a lyric that shoots my heart & soul to pieces!

I hate listening to music at the moment. Then have to go play & get triggered in front of people while they enjoy a great night out at a gig!

It's like a public crucifixion!  :'(

I'm a big Rolling Stones fan - basically because their songs are not the usual;

I'm so sad/ it was all my fault / Can't go on without you / Please forgive me

45rpm trype that so much pop music was when I was growing up.

Brutal, un-romantic lyrics are more supportive while your crawling from the wreckage

they don't make you want to cry/ curl up in a ball and die anyway.

"Oooh, a storm is threat'ning My very life today... .   "    

www.youtube.com/watch?v=R3rnxQBizoU (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R3rnxQBizoU)

Love that song man!

Hey! Your a crazy b, but u f*** so good im on top of it... . :)

 I listened to a song called "jumper"from third eye blind , And wish you where here by pink floyd Man these songs hit the nail on the head for me today. As a man we are taught feelings are for wimps early on in life. Music helps me release big time. I just put on Pandora and let the feelings wash over me. . I can cry smile all in the same song. Deff helping me heal. I jump on my Suzuki tl 1000 sportbike crank the head phones up and ride man!

I say there's a lot of dysfunction in the world and break–up songs have been a staple for as long as there's been music; they are hits in a misery loves company kinda way.

Borderline traits are human traits that exist on a continuum, with everyone exhibiting them to some degree at one time or another. To me it's about intensity: if someone exhibits several of the traits most of the time, with some intensity thrown in just for added strife, they may earn a full blown clinical diagnosis.

As far as music goes, the one that reminds me of her is Bob Marley's Three Little Birds:

Don't worry bout a thing

Cuz every little thing gonna be alright

That was my mantra when immersed in borderline hell. Didn't work, but did help me make everything alright by leaving.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=au5FSs9qVDo