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Title: What do you make of this? Post by: The Mrs on January 11, 2014, 01:53:46 AM So I've been out of our house for 5 months now but have contact due to business obligations and family. I recently made the move the get out of my 700 sq ft rental and try buy something after my husband repeatedly told me to separate the bank accounts and that he didn't want to be responsible for me any more (granted, this would flip flop with pleas to just come home). Now, he has disconnected the land line phone to our home as of New Years Eve, has disconnected his cell phone as of tonight (so he says no more texting), and is proclaiming he will be disconnecting the internet on Wednesday. I don't know what to make of this. He says he is mad because the bills are in my name yet he doesn't want to open new accounts in his name and have them run a credit check even though his credit his fine. He is afraid it will ding his credit. On the one hand , this feels like isolation and unravelling, and on the other hand it reeks of MANIPULATION. Thoughts? Clarity
Title: Re: What do you make of this? Post by: heartandwhole on January 11, 2014, 06:09:10 AM Hi The Mrs,
I'm not sure what to make of this. I might not understand exactly what it is you're saying Do you mean that your husband is cutting of routes of communication, so that you won't be able to reach him at all? If so, that seems strange. Has he ever said that he doesn't want contact with you? What do you think this is about? |