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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Moonie75 on January 12, 2014, 03:35:32 PM



Title: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: Moonie75 on January 12, 2014, 03:35:32 PM
I just had a phone conversation with a friend back home. hadn't spoke to him in a quite a while & he knew me & my ex were having problems last summer. he asked me how things were & I said the story of that relationship is a long & complicated one. Too long for a phone conversation.

He said "Ok, sum it up mate". I was stumped for a brief discription, best i could say in one sentence was... .

"Imagine being a good boy, going to heaven & then slowly realizing you were actually in hell".





Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: Pearl55 on January 12, 2014, 03:51:13 PM
BPD or the more accurately labelled " dangerous a+*%#le that should be avoided like the plague".


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: fromheeltoheal on January 12, 2014, 03:59:55 PM
"She has a serious mental illness, I didn't know that going in, and I was very susceptible and naive; I suffered emotional, psychological and physical abuse before I wised up and bailed."


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: love4meNOTu on January 12, 2014, 04:00:46 PM
"It was indeed, too good to be true."


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: arn131arn on January 12, 2014, 04:03:43 PM
Walt Whitman said it best! "we were together, I forget the rest" maybe that's two sentences but both short enough for one. Does that still qualify? Lmao



Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: BeHappyAgain on January 12, 2014, 04:35:11 PM
I could describe it in one word, but the moderators would pull me over and book me !

:)


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: Moonie75 on January 12, 2014, 04:37:06 PM
I could describe it in one word, but the moderators would pull me over and book me !

:)

Superb!  :)

I got booked a few times last year! 


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: LilMissSunshine on January 12, 2014, 04:41:19 PM
"Imagine being a good boy, going to heaven & then slowly realizing you were actually in hell".

Say's it all for me.   :'(  Good one Moonie.


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: happylogist on January 12, 2014, 04:42:18 PM
Havoc ... . But with hopes of happiness and peace... . Havoc.


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: caughtnreleased on January 12, 2014, 04:43:56 PM
imagine you were Ulysses, and when you heard the siren song, no one tied you up.


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: santa on January 12, 2014, 05:07:57 PM
No self-respecting man would give a damn about this woman and you shouldn't either.


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: laelle on January 12, 2014, 05:18:43 PM
Don Quixote vs Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: 1BrickShort on January 12, 2014, 05:29:56 PM
Chaos!


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: Changingman on January 12, 2014, 05:31:02 PM
I just had a phone conversation with a friend back home. hadn't spoke to him in a quite a while & he knew me & my ex were having problems last summer. he asked me how things were & I said the story of that relationship is a long & complicated one. Too long for a phone conversation.

He said "Ok, sum it up mate". I was stumped for a brief discription, best i could say in one sentence was... .

"Imagine being a good boy, going to heaven & then slowly realizing you were actually in hell".


Jesus that's good gonna have to think, I love this thread


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: Moonie75 on January 12, 2014, 05:40:06 PM
I just remembered my dads 'one liner' last time we recycled.

"you're polishing a turd son!"





Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: Changingman on January 12, 2014, 05:43:54 PM
A romance porn movie written by Steven King

A crazy, chaotic hazy sex romance thriller novel that you wake up at the end and feel like you've just been groomed and abused by a paedophile.

A twisted insane romance that at the end of you know why all the evil in the world exists



Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: Pearl55 on January 12, 2014, 05:51:10 PM
I just remembered my dads 'one liner' last time we recycled.

"you're polishing a turd son!"


Haha, I love this!


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: Pearl55 on January 12, 2014, 05:53:59 PM
Moonie

How long did it last your recycle last time? How many times did you recycled?


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: santa on January 12, 2014, 05:54:58 PM
A four year battle for supremacy that ended in a draw.


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: Moonie75 on January 12, 2014, 05:55:05 PM
I just remembered my dads 'one liner' last time we recycled.

"you're polishing a turd son!"


Haha, I love this!

I need to clarify! I meant when me & my ex recycled! Not me & my dad! That would be just wrong!  :)


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: fiddlestix on January 12, 2014, 05:58:31 PM
"I was devoted to her in a way that she could not return, and it took me 25 years to accept it."

Fiddlestix


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: Moonie75 on January 12, 2014, 06:01:41 PM
Moonie

How long did it last your recycle last time? How many times did you recycled?

That's TWO sentences Pearl! And a very strange description too!  lol

Lots of little break ups (few days to a week). Two major break ups. Both times she run out to a replacement & both new romances burst within 3 months. And i was dumb enough to go back into her crazy world after both.

So recycled twice after 3 months apart. It took 3 months to cycle round to $hit with me this time so I've walked out of it into NC.



Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: RecycledNoMore on January 12, 2014, 07:06:15 PM
3 miles of bad road...

.

R.E.M


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: MrFox on January 12, 2014, 07:06:22 PM
A year and a half relationship with an illusion.


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: sun seeker on January 12, 2014, 07:15:33 PM
   Blinded folded and ran backwards through a corn field for 11 months!


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: State85 on January 12, 2014, 07:32:40 PM
Twisted.


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: Free2Bee on January 12, 2014, 07:37:26 PM
It was the best of times, it was the worst of times... .


Title: Re: How would you describe a BPD relationship in one sentence?
Post by: State85 on January 12, 2014, 08:08:20 PM
Or,

As ZBB would say... .

There's a note on the table said I ain't coming back til your sorry ass is gone. I'm tired of you're cheating and running around , never saw the wrong in anything you done... .

I'm from the south so I hope you know who ZBB is... . they say it so well.