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Title: New text Post by: State85 on January 14, 2014, 09:47:19 PM So i got a text from my exgf tonight. Complaining as usual. Specifically why I couldn't comment on her FB post of a bike ride she did. Well, I don't see her posts so I didn't see it. But she isn't aware of that. Anyway, I'm not going to comment even if I did see the post. She rides with one of my replacements. She is unemployed, he's retired(20'yrs older) so plenty of time for them to hook up,right. Then she bhites cause I won't ask her to run with me. What the hell. I don't want to see her, much less run with her. And, I'm not getting between her and him. I wonder if he is aware of this? Oh wait, she told me in the past they are just friends... .
I guess her old "friend" doesn't, or can't run... . Just wanted to vent a little bout this Title: Re: New text Post by: Moonie75 on January 14, 2014, 09:50:30 PM I would just ignore this dribble.
Cr@p is what it is & nothing else. Childish squabbling petty cr@p! It's not worth head space let alone engaging in it! Title: Re: New text Post by: sun seeker on January 14, 2014, 09:54:03 PM I understand why BPDers want to be friends after they move on cause they need a back up... .
What makes no sense is how they could possibly think this is acceptable behavior . Mental disorder I know. Still boggles the mind. I agree with Moonie disengage. ... you'll benefit tremendously. ... . Title: Re: New text Post by: State85 on January 14, 2014, 10:23:19 PM Disengaging... .
Title: Re: New text Post by: fiddlestix on January 14, 2014, 10:42:50 PM The bratty behavior our BPD exes display is kind of funny. She expects you to comment on her fb pics, and go running with her? And gripes and whines when you don't? Even though she has replaced you with an old codger? What a brat! Lol. The healthier I get the more I see some humor in our heart-crushing sagas.
Fiddle Title: Re: New text Post by: State85 on January 14, 2014, 10:49:12 PM When I did run with her, it was hell. Constantly complaining cause I was way faster, so I would slow down... . now I'm too close, or too far behind... . cannot win... .
I vowed to never run with her again while we were in a r/s, don't know why she thinks I will now... . Title: Re: New text Post by: State85 on January 14, 2014, 10:52:46 PM I understand why BPDers want to be friends after they move on cause they need a back up... . What makes no sense is how they could possibly think this is acceptable behavior . Mental disorder I know. Still boggles the mind. I agree with Moonie disengage. ... you'll benefit tremendously. ... . I get that, but why still treat me like crap in a text... . if, you want to be friends. To me, being normal... . I would think the opposite... kinda like, I need to be nice,sweet, etc. so he will at least think about being my friends, even though I abused and destroyed him in the r/s. Friends... . not going to happen. Ride off in the sunset with your boyfriend... . destroy him |