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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Kallor74 on January 22, 2014, 04:41:47 PM



Title: I'm not trying to be your father
Post by: Kallor74 on January 22, 2014, 04:41:47 PM
I just don't want to be in a relationship with an adult who needs boundries set for common sense ___.  Raging and acting out impulsivly like a damn 4 year old.  Either extreme love or hate, no in between like a normal rational human being.  I don't need that type of drama in my life.

she is not worth it.  Kick rocks b*^&h


Title: Re: I'm not trying to be your father
Post by: CoasterRider on January 22, 2014, 04:52:23 PM
Amen! You need a partner not to be a parent.


Title: Re: I'm not trying to be your father
Post by: Turkish on January 22, 2014, 06:14:49 PM
I just don't want to be in a relationship with an adult who needs boundries set for common sense ___.  Raging and acting out impulsivly like a damn 4 year old.  Either extreme love or hate, no in between like a normal rational human being.  I don't need that type of drama in my life.

she is not worth it.  Kick rocks b*^&h

Exactly, Kallor74. Mine:

"When I get angry or out of line, you need to tell me 'knock it off!' My younger brother is good at that, why don't you do it?"

Me: "You verbally and emotionally abused me, And you wonder why I shut down and withdrew?"

Her: "I always told you to stand up to me!"

For this, and a few other things, she called herself a "woman of character" and said I was not a man of character.

Whatever. Child.

Turkish  (father to D1, S3 and D32)