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Title: Knowing that it is not me Post by: Mcgddss on January 23, 2014, 02:08:56 AM 6 months after the end my uBPDxh still is telling me I am the problem but he will love me forever.
Going through this divorce has been one of the hardest things I have ever done. Having to hear from our children how he is still abusive to them is the hardest thing I have ever done. Knowing he has sweet talked a judge and the local police bugs the crum out of me. But right now my grandfather is in hospice. And I am here supporting my Aunt. And I continue to go to work everyday, do the laundry, pay the bills. Every normal thing I do reminds me that it isn't me and I am choosing to leave an unhealthy relationship to be a healthier person. Title: Re: Knowing that it is not me Post by: Learning_curve74 on January 23, 2014, 08:31:44 AM Kudos to you Mcgddss for recognizing your needs, for understanding your right to being healthy. |iiii
Love is not enough. People can love without being involved in a relationship: Feeling love is easy, the nuts and bolts of a relationship take having the right tools and a lot of elbow grease. |