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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: LilMissSunshine on January 25, 2014, 09:26:19 AM



Title: Measuring Our Pain
Post by: LilMissSunshine on January 25, 2014, 09:26:19 AM
Is the agony we suffer, detaching from a pwBPD, more severe than actually withdrawing from a drug or alcohol addiction?    


Title: Re: Measuring Our Pain
Post by: growing_wings on January 25, 2014, 11:36:48 AM
interesting question!... my T said to me that some behavioural addiction can be similar to a substance addiction, therefore leaving the "drama" around our BPD can be seen as a substance withdrawal... .

i relate to what you say... . i never felt like this. I havent experienced substance addiction, but sometimes i wonder if it would feel like this!

if you are going through hell, KEEP walking  ( i read this somewhere, and i think this relates to how i feel)

keep moving (i say the same to me every single day)


Title: Re: Measuring Our Pain
Post by: irishmarmot on January 25, 2014, 08:44:28 PM
I have experienced substance addiction and everyone is different but I will take breaking up with my expwBPD any day over getting sober.  It is much more painful in the initial phases.  And after that it is constant vigilance.


Title: Re: Measuring Our Pain
Post by: Moonie75 on January 25, 2014, 08:58:10 PM
interesting question!... my T said to me that some behavioural addiction can be similar to a substance addiction, therefore leaving the "drama" around our BPD can be seen as a substance withdrawal... .

i relate to what you say... . i never felt like this. I havent experienced substance addiction, but sometimes i wonder if it would feel like this!

if you are going through hell, KEEP walking  ( i read this somewhere, and i think this relates to how i feel)

keep moving (i say the same to me every single day)

"When you're going through hell, keep going"

Winston Churchill


Title: Re: Measuring Our Pain
Post by: growing_wings on January 26, 2014, 04:14:33 AM
interesting question!... my T said to me that some behavioural addiction can be similar to a substance addiction, therefore leaving the "drama" around our BPD can be seen as a substance withdrawal... .

i relate to what you say... . i never felt like this. I havent experienced substance addiction, but sometimes i wonder if it would feel like this!

if you are going through hell, KEEP walking  ( i read this somewhere, and i think this relates to how i feel)

keep moving (i say the same to me every single day)

"When you're going through hell, keep going"

Winston Churchill

thanks Moonie, indeed, Winston Churchill :) now i know!