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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: misssouthernbelle on January 25, 2014, 05:00:45 PM



Title: Contacting, Then Disappearing After I Respond?
Post by: misssouthernbelle on January 25, 2014, 05:00:45 PM
He text me, ignoring our fight two days ago, telling me that he finally had a dream that didn't lead to a nightmare. He's been wanting to get rest, so I knew it was a good thing.

I was validating and said, "Yay! I'm sure that was wonderful. I'm happy for you!"

No reply.

I don't know why he does these things. Just validation I suppose.


Title: Re: Contacting, Then Disappearing After I Respond?
Post by: waverider on January 25, 2014, 05:05:57 PM
Maybe no reply because he had nothing he impulsively had to say. That fact that you might be expecting a reply wouldn't even be considered


Title: Re: Contacting, Then Disappearing After I Respond?
Post by: misssouthernbelle on January 25, 2014, 11:53:53 PM
Selfish really isn't the word, is it?

Thanks for the insight.