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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: vangirl60 on January 25, 2014, 07:42:07 PM



Title: Coming into money
Post by: vangirl60 on January 25, 2014, 07:42:07 PM
Ok, some of you ought to be able to comment on this….

ExuBPD/npd is happily ensconced in new rship with replacement and is about to come into an inheritance from death of a parent. Does it give them security? Do they blow it? This guy has lived pay check to pay check for years and never managed money well. Interested to hear the stories... .


Title: Re: Coming into money
Post by: santa on January 25, 2014, 07:47:20 PM
Ok, some of you ought to be able to comment on this….

ExuBPD/npd is happily ensconced in new rship with replacement and is about to come into an inheritance from death of a parent. Does it give them security? Do they blow it? This guy has lived pay check to pay check for years and never managed money well. Interested to hear the stories... .

I'm sure he'll blow it all. It may take awhile if it's a significant sum of money, but it won't last long. BPDs are terrible with money. It'll burn a hole in his pocket until he's spent every last cent of it.


Title: Re: Coming into money
Post by: Waifed on January 25, 2014, 07:52:41 PM
Many are impulsive but they are human too. He will likely follow his spending habits from before.


Title: Re: Coming into money
Post by: santa on January 25, 2014, 07:54:04 PM
Many are impulsive but they are human too. He will likely follow his spending habits from before.

LOL. He's going to spend it like Vince Young.


Title: Re: Coming into money
Post by: Perfidy on January 25, 2014, 07:55:11 PM
There is a hole that nothing can fill. Don't forget that. There is never enough.

Money makes a good person better. Money makes a longer rope to hang yourself with. I'm not going to say it will make a bad person badder. You do the math.