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Title: A bit of clarity Post by: Grissum69 on January 28, 2014, 06:05:21 PM Hi all, well it's been a few weeks now. I have been busy attending to my dad ( dementia / Parkinson's ) , working out 5 days a week, getting ready to graduate with my bachelors in March, and I have been reading a lot. " I hate you don't leave" , and SWOE (Stop walking on Eggshells ). I have been doing other research as well... . I'm more knowledgeable now than before and I see a lot of what I went through with my uEX in almost two years. I recommend those two books to everyone and anyone, it helped me but it's all up to the reader I guess.
Title: Re: A bit of clarity Post by: arn131arn on January 28, 2014, 06:38:38 PM Green, I was going to get those books, I got "Splitting" instead. I haven't started reading it yet, but can u elaborate on key points or actions proposed in the two u read? Why they were so beneficial?
Title: Re: A bit of clarity Post by: Grissum69 on January 28, 2014, 06:51:10 PM well they give insight as to why and how the " Borderline " thinks and acts. And also how one could learn to deal with your SO having BPD, how not to "trigger" and help get through situations. I'm on chapter 3 of SWOE and I am hooked.
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