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Title: Oops Post by: Wanna Move On on February 04, 2014, 05:05:11 PM Hello, Board:
Yesterday, I mused about the likelihood of single BPDf's (specifically those who desperately desire marriage, NOW!) becoming "accidentally" pregnant -- and then using that as emotional leverage to blindside the potentially vulnerable father-to-be (while he is undoubtedly reeling in the throes of emotion!) to manipulatively secure a rush-rush marriage. Well, in reading online, I found out there actually IS a term in BPD psychology circles used to describe that exact situation: "Oops!" (As in being "Oopsed!" by the female; as in the female "Oopsing!" the male.) Apparently, the above scenario is SO COMMON AN OCCURRENCE that a colloquial name has been given to it! How utterly diabolical! Pardon my naivety. Oops! Title: Re: Oops Post by: GreenMango on February 04, 2014, 05:33:57 PM Nothing stopping people from wearing a condom. It can take the oops factor out of it.
Or not having sex when we notice a desperate need like this that we aren't comfortable with. |