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Title: questioning my beliefs Post by: AllisG on February 14, 2014, 11:14:44 PM I feel like I'm questioning my beliefs, doubting myself.
When he accuses me of something I start to wonder, "maybe what I did or said is wrong?" Even if I know with all my being I did nothing wrong I still get this nagging in my head that maybe he's right. Or if I feel he's crossed boundaries (for example he has major boundary issues with Facebook, but that's another topic) I feel like oh maybe it's not a big deal. Idk if that makes sense. Title: Re: questioning my beliefs Post by: Surnia on February 15, 2014, 02:32:15 AM Makes perfect sense to me.
As long I was in my rs with my now exh, I went through similar things. Weak boundaries, not too much clarity about my values, downplaying it, too fast doubting myself. I realized that I have this not only with my h, I have similar situations with co-workers for example. Another thought is: Is it really about right or wrong or is it more about "being different" or have different perceptions or opinions? Perhaps you can tell one of your real life examples? |