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Title: What brings a borderline to their knees? II. Post by: BorisAcusio on February 18, 2014, 11:33:54 AM https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=219892.0
Excerpt Quote from: BorisAcusio on Today at 06:07:29 AM Quote from: Undone123 on Today at 04:20:34 AM oh indeed she is disordered. Yes she treats people awfully. But I don't believe she wakes up in the morning and intends to be that way. Does that matter? They completely know that their actions will deeply hurt the nons. They know it and do it anyways. They know their actions... . But I don't believe they understand the extent it will hurt. They don't have that capacity to empathise, because they are wrapped up in their own inner turmoil Well, my exBPDgf watched her husband breaking down, crying like a baby and literally knocking himself out with booze after he discovered she's having an affair. Even had to call the ambulance. The guy was a bodybuilder, the alpha male type that never shows emotions or cry, even on his beloved father's funeral. A great father, provider with strong moral compass. This BPD witch tore him apart and spit him. Few months later she did exactly the same with me and her paramour, lying to both of us. No remorese, guilt, shame or empathy. Just the feeling of entitlement, like she has the right to make herself content at any cost, on your expense or others, it doesn't matter. So in religious terms, they are surely NOT evil, but in everyday perspective, yes they are. Title: Re: What brings a borderline to their knees? II. Post by: seeking balance on February 18, 2014, 11:39:20 AM Hey Boris,
So, what is the point of opening up this topic again? The last thread was a bit hijacked, what is it exactly that you are looking to discuss? Peace, SB Title: Re: What brings a borderline to their knees? II. Post by: BorisAcusio on February 18, 2014, 11:46:20 AM Hey Boris, So, what is the point of opening up this topic again? The last thread was a bit hijacked, what is it exactly that you are looking to discuss? Peace, SB The thread has taken an interesting direction and judging from the view count, others may think the same. Title: Re: What brings a borderline to their knees? II. Post by: seeking balance on February 18, 2014, 11:50:51 AM Hey Boris, So, what is the point of opening up this topic again? The last thread was a bit hijacked, what is it exactly that you are looking to discuss? Peace, SB The thread has taken an interesting direction and judging from the view count, others may think the same. Yes, it was hijacked - so what is the direction you are taking it? I don't think debating the "evil" of a pwBPD is where you want to go - so where is it that you want to take this thread? What is the topic? Title: Re: What brings a borderline to their knees? II. Post by: Sstepdad on February 18, 2014, 12:04:17 PM If you want revenge move on, borderlines are tortured enough on the inside.
My undiagnosed SD has a life of chaos and misery as she searches for the perfect mate that does not exist, why take revenge on that? |