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Title: It's finally happening... I am truly starting to see things the right way. Post by: NoCRV on February 19, 2014, 06:42:03 AM It's finally happening... . I am truly starting to see things the right way.
This relationship was not supposed to work out for me. I am one of the fortunate ones to walk away from this relationship with relatively no damage done. I didn't marry her, I didn't have children with her, the relationship was only a year, and I now have my freedom to find a true happiness (Sorry to those of you that have endured more than I have.) I read the post about dreaming about the BPDex before going to bed which I knew was a bad idea and I did have a dream but it was positive. I have had some dreams involving the ex but she hasn't been present in any of the recent ones. I woke up thinking maybe she was excluded from the dreams because she has recycled her ex but pulling a positive away from the dreams I got to spend time with her family whom there was genuine love with and not have to deal with her. Thank you everyone for your postings and support. Title: Re: It's finally happening... I am truly starting to see things the right way. Post by: Skip on February 19, 2014, 08:28:33 AM Glad to hear that you are detaching - the lack of bad dreams is a sign that you are cleared the trauma of all of this.
I have been broken up with her for a little over three months and she has since recycled her ex. My gut says she re-engages (probably influenced by my readings on here) but my head says there is no way she does. Sounds like she never fully let go of the ex. That's never a good thing. I'd hope you to stay around and help with the newbies. Helping others is a great way to help ourselves. |iiii Title: Re: It's finally happening... I am truly starting to see things the right way. Post by: NoCRV on February 19, 2014, 10:57:13 AM Thank You Skip.
It's funny how in such a short time thinking can change. I am almost positive she doesn't re-engage me now. Too much shame for going back to the ex and I have dropped off the face of the earth. He was always in touch with her during our relationship and wanted back in. I am prepared for the unexpected though. Title: Re: It's finally happening... I am truly starting to see things the right way. Post by: Mutt on February 19, 2014, 03:57:50 PM Thank You Skip. It's funny how in such a short time thinking can change. I am almost positive she doesn't re-engage me now. Too much shame for going back to the ex and I have dropped off the face of the earth. He was always in touch with her during our relationship and wanted back in. I am prepared for the unexpected though. Good for you NoCRV! |iiii We can't predict the future, take care of you. Title: Re: It's finally happening... I am truly starting to see things the right way. Post by: NoCRV on February 19, 2014, 05:00:26 PM Thank You Mutt!
I am. Thanks for the support. |