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Title: Borderline ex asking to return stuff Post by: Hurtbeyondrepair27 on February 21, 2014, 02:04:38 PM Just got a message from ex telling me I left tax papers in his car... .
He's asking if I want them or should he throw them away... . I can always get another copy again right? Should I ignore this as an attempt to break NC? Title: Re: Borderline ex asking to return stuff Post by: Hurtbeyondrepair27 on February 21, 2014, 02:15:10 PM I didn't have answers at the time... tried to get friends to communicate with him... and he
was threatening to throw away right then. So I had to message him when I really didn't want to. It was through fb and unless you have an ongoing message with him or are friends with him you cannot message him. I didn't now what to do... and didn't want my tax info out there. Title: Re: Borderline ex asking to return stuff Post by: Hurtbeyondrepair27 on February 21, 2014, 02:21:57 PM Now I'm hurting again and feel like I was literally backed into a corner
and forced to talk to him with no way out. Title: Re: Borderline ex asking to return stuff Post by: Popcorn71 on February 21, 2014, 02:36:30 PM I understand how you feel. I had a similar incident recently. I didn't reply.
Don't feel too bad. You didn't intentionally break NC. Just go back to NC now. Good luck Title: Re: Borderline ex asking to return stuff Post by: Hurtbeyondrepair27 on February 21, 2014, 02:38:32 PM It was tax info... so I didn't want mine and my daughters social floating around
That sucked so badly. I went back and read his fb, and he was telling everyone what a C*** I was... . and accusing me of crap I didn't do. So hurtful. ugh. Title: Re: Borderline ex asking to return stuff Post by: Hurtbeyondrepair27 on February 21, 2014, 02:43:44 PM He didn't apologize anything... now I'm struggling with texting him:
"What no sorry?" I am so p***ed he still hasn't said he was sorry for that. |