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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: tsheater on March 06, 2014, 02:47:09 PM



Title: It has been a long time.
Post by: tsheater on March 06, 2014, 02:47:09 PM
I want to thank the people on this board. You were a beacon of hope in my confused darkness. The last direct contact with my ex-parner was in June. She then attempted to file a restraining order against me. The court found (5k later) that her complaint had no merit. I was not suprised but had a lot of anguish over the trauma. She has found a new man. I pitty him. She then unblocked me on facebook! Well I will never contact her again. And that feels okay. There has been a shift inside me and I feel calm and resolved with the situation. No more nights crying and feeling helpless. I am now at peace.

I wish the same for you.   


Title: Re: It has been a long time.
Post by: heartandwhole on March 07, 2014, 02:03:42 PM
Hi tsheater,

I'm so glad to hear that you are at peace, and not crying and feeling helpless anymore.  It warms my heart to know that the site benefited you. You have been through a lot, and I see only 2 posts, so it looks like you were reading a lot.

Thank you for checking in.  It's always great to hear of good outcomes and successes.  We're here whenever you want to post again.