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Title: Going down... part 2... focus more on myself Post by: Sophia66 on March 13, 2014, 07:42:53 PM It has been nearly 4 months since my BPD husband walked out on me. I went to see my therapist quite a few times and the questions I have been asked most often is what I am staying in the marriage for. Even though he had walked out on me many many times, even though I seemed to have been emotionally empowered by him, I had never seriously thought about it. I am financially independent and I am well respected… why have I seemed to be so sucked into this marriage and so willing to lose or diminish myself in this unbalanced relationship? I have thought hard about it for the last couple of days and now I have reached a conclusion to get myself out of this emotional spiral as soon as I possibly can, which will benefit myself and psychological well-being… I try not to focus or to try to figure out what he is up to, instead, i have been TRYING more on myself… Let's see... .
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