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Title: Am I wrong? Post by: tired-of-it-all on April 04, 2014, 07:43:38 PM Let me start by saying that I have suffered a lot of abuse from my BPDWife. Both physical and mental.
A while back on a hot day I was driving home from work and I took off my watch and ring because my hands were sweaty. When I reached the house and started to get out of the car, I realized that I had not put on my wedding ring. In a panic I reached to get the ring on my hand before she saw. At that moment it hit me that this was just more of her control. At that point I stopped wearing my wedding ring unless we were going to something special like church or a special event. It made her really mad but it is my own little protest against her control and against the way I have been treated. Tonight I took her to dinner along with one of our kids. She didn't wear her ring. I am not really mad. I really don't care anymore. I just think that she has no right to punish me after all that I have suffered. What do you guys think about my behavior? What about hers? |